Guard Your Heart My Loves ♥

 

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Saw this on Tumblr last night and I was wow these are some powerful words especially for us single girls out there. So many times I see young girls fall prey to young men and there “sweet talk.” Ladies never settle for anything less than you deserve. His words may be sweet but his heart can also be sour. Guard your heart. It’s no good broken. 

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Currently Jamming Out To Some Britt Nicole “Look Like Love”

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Dear Fear I Hate You

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As I’m sitting here just looking back on my life I realized that I have so many moments in my life that I wish I could just go back and do it all over again. Some moments in particular is telling people how I really feel. It may seem like a small thing to some but for me if I was more honest with the way I felt my life could have been so much different now. Fear is so crippling. Fear holds you back. Fear is your own worst enemy. I was so afraid to tell people how I felt. Because of this fear there were so many missed opportunities. I also think pride had a lot to do with it. When I look back on my life I now see how I let my fear and pride get the better of me. I let fear take over my life and it definitely changed the course of my life. It’s so weird how sometimes we put our lives on hold, we put the way we feel aside or we let the thing in life we want the most slip right through our fingers just because we are afraid that the people around us wouldn’t approve or they would judge. Fear damn you!!!

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♥ This song warms my heart ♥

Live A Life Full Of Joy.

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Surround yourself with people who will uplift you. Surround yourself with people who not only respect you, but they respect themselves. Be mindful of the hurtful things you say because someone is always listening. Someone will get hurt. Admit your wrong when you discover it. Mistakes are good. They teach you a thing or to. Live a good life. Live a life full of Joy. Never look back at yesterday troubles and bring them into today. Don’t count on other people to center you. Remember that the person you are meant to be, you are the only one who can seek them out. You have more to offer than the way you look. Take the time to discover who you are. You will be surprised. Find your inner happiness and doors in your life will open. xx ♥

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Words That Nourish The Soul

The Small Things

Cherish the small moments in life. Celebrate the little things in life. Be happy when you conquer that small achievement or goal you set for your self. Appreciate the small things  because in life the littlest things have the most profound effects and outcomes.

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Notes From My Journal 2

 

I’m 22 years old and I have to confess that I am always on my phone. Even though I am someone who is always doing things on my phone I hate texting/calling friends. Before you judge me and say that I am a horrible friend or just plain ole selfish I have my reasons why I hate texting/calling people. I honestly feel like with friends when you have something important to tell them or just something that you find exciting, it should be said to them face to face. I know sometimes this is impossible but I feel like you really get to see who gives a shit about the stuff you are saying or things you like when you tell them in person. The one expression that can’t be hidden is the “I don’t give a fuck face or tone in voice.” You see who is really you’re friend or who is just there because.

Notes From My Journal 1

This year I have been struggling with what to give people for Christmas. I just don’t know what to give people this year at all. I honestly have to say that deep down I’m not in the mood to celebrate Christmas at all. Lately I have just been witnessing so many things that I can’t even comprehend and it’s definitely has put a damper on my Christmas spirit. I love the Christmas season but this year it doesn’t feel like Christmas at all. Today I feel like everyone has everything, even down to the small little insignificant stuff and it makes buying gifts so much harder. I am the type of person who will start my Christmas shopping in November and get little trinkets for people but this year I didn’t even do that. I feel such aura of ungratefulness rubbing off of people that it has put me in such a funky mood this Christmas. I don’t know how to explain it all, its just mind boggling. Has anyone been experiencing this, this Christmas season?

Yes Moments!

Have you ever had moments in your life where you just wished you said yes instead of saying no or instead of just sitting there speechless because you have no worries. I think a lot of this comes from the lack of confidence we have within ourselves and the inability to not worry about what people will say or how this will affect our lives. I have had moments like these maybe one to many where I should have given an answer instead of just remaining speechless or acting like I wasn’t interested. I look back on these moments and these are my biggest regrets in life. Not being able to say “yes” when the right moment came up.A lot of my missed moments had to do with worry and not feeling good enough. Some has to do with relationships I passed up because I was too afraid to take the risk and others had to do with me internally. My inner yes moments. I am 20 years old and the only risks I take in life is speaking what’s on my mind. I know I know not a lot of people can do this but I wish that I was more of a risk taker instead of a worrier. I worry a lot about myself and also about what others will think of me if I step way out of the box. I need to ask God to just take that pride away from me and renew in me a new and improved risk taker. A person who will follow the things he has placed on her heart. Praying always works but it is up to the person who is praying for these things to go out and do it. God can plant that seed in our lives but it is up to us to continue feeding it, nourishing it and nursing it to it’s full potential.

“Don’t worry about anything, but pray about everything. With thankful hearts offer up your prayers and requests to God. Then, because you belong to Christ Jesus, God will bless you with peace that no one can completely understand. And this peace will control the way you think and feel.”-Philippians 4:6-7

If anyone reads this what are some moments in your life you wish you had said yes?